I planned to write on Saturday, the second anniversary of my mom’s death, but since that day is already hard and writing about her just makes me sob, I decided to stay busy. We did go out for tacos and I had a michelada (best drink ever, one of her faves) and we had a family zoom call where we shared memories and did a “Saturday shot” in her memory. The best part about the day was that my cousin Kristin declared it “Be Like Barb Day.” She made these amazing graphics and encouraged others with this post:
“The world needs more people like My Aunt Barb. The artist, the activist of human rights and health, the peacemaker and conservationist, the selfless giver of help and love. Today and every day I strive to be more like her. We miss her so much. Join me in #BeLikeBarbDay. Make art for a friend, fight for the rights of someone other than yourself, celebrate holidays and achievements of others, make someone feel special, nourish a loved one’s body with a healthy meal or drop veggies at their door, and don’t forget to love yourself. Today, and every day, let’s #belikeBarb.”
My dad said that most often the tears flow, not out of sadness, but out of pride. He is just so proud to have a partner that left behind a legacy that encourages others to do good in the world. He loves every hashtag and comment so keep sharing and using her memory to bring about beauty and change for good in the world.
Here’s a fun way to get started by yourself or with your family. Color in her design, the “sun” flower for every act of kindness. I’ll check back on your progress next Jan 22nd. #belikeBarb
Be Like Barb 